Good sexual satisfaction experience – Advice to couples

Good sexual satisfaction experience – Advice to couples

It might be that after many years of marriage, the passion and sex has diminished. If you are facing these issues, take heart that you are not the only one. In fact, most married couples face these problems even after 1 or 2 years of marriage. So what is it that makes some couple last a lifetime in terms of sexual satisfaction? We explore some options.
Look and feel sexy – everyone says that after a child is born, the body gives way. Like it or not, this is not true. In order to look sexy, you need to feel sexy. Exercise and shed away the body fats that makes you have a negative thought about yourself. Do that with your partner so that you keep track of each other’s progress. You will be spending quality time together while increasing the attraction factor to each other.

Role play – it might be cliché but role playing is one of the most known methods that helps to increase sexual satisfaction among couples. First act out each other’s fantasies like a boss and naughty secretary, a teacher-student scenario or even Princess Leia in Star Wars. Once you have done that, try to act out other scenarios. Make sure that you are serious in this which must come complete with costumes and such. Think about who you are going to sleep with tonight. Do this once every quarter or every 6 months so you have something to look forward to.

Change the routine – you think that after having been together for so many years, you know exactly what your partner wants and enjoys? So you keep doing the same thing for years. Maybe it is time to change the routine. You keep touching the same parts, kissing the same areas because you know that is what your partner likes. Make some small changes like positions and a new technique and see where it leads to. Check out our previous article on sexual positions here.

Get out – adventure could surely heighten your sexual experience with your partner. The bedroom is always the ‘safest’ place to have sex. How about taking this out of the bedroom to change the style every once a while? This does not mean that you must go to the parking lot or at a mall but you can always try the kitchen or the living room (when no one is around). If you can (and don’t get caught), doing it in public places might be very exciting too.

Talk, talk and talk – finally, the most important thing about having better sexual satisfaction is to talk. Communication is the fundamental part of having a good sex life. If you like to be touched somewhere, you should talk to your partner about it. You can show it if it makes more sense. If there is something you don’t like, then you should communicate as well. You’d never know that your partner might just enjoy playing out your fantasy if you never tell. Use email, SMS, Whatsapp, Line or whatever it takes to communicate your desired with each other.

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